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Jonathan Robinson
3 min readOct 24, 2019

12 Questions to Instant Intimacy with Anyone

Almost everyone is busy nowadays, yet we still crave deep intimacy and connection with our friends, mate, dates, and/or family. Unfortunately, we never learn how to connect deeply in a short period of time. Fortunately, there is a solution. Below you will find a description of an exercise you can do with virtually anyone you know that will quickly lead to deep feelings of connection.

The method for creating quick connection consists of 12 powerful questions. In essence, you and a partner, friend, date, or even co-worker can take turns answering these questions. If you’re short on time, you may choose to only answer a couple of the questions with a partner. With each question you take turns answering, you’ll find an almost magical feeling of intimacy rapidly develops between the two of you. Give it a try and you’ll see what I mean. Just follow the directions below:

Directions:

This is a powerful exercise that can evoke a strong response, so be sure to create an emotionally safe space for your exploration. These questions deserve plenty of time and your full focus. Find a quiet place, turn off your phone, and let go of your concerns as best you can. . Set aside up to 40 minutes to answer all the questions with a partner, although if you are short on time, it’s fine to simply answer a couple of the questions together.

Jonathan Robinson
Jonathan Robinson

Written by Jonathan Robinson

is the author of 12 books and a frequent guest on Oprah. His website is FindingHappiness.com and his podcast is “Awareness Explorers.” email: iamjonr@aol.com

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