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12 Questions to Instant Intimacy with Anyone
Almost everyone is busy nowadays, yet we still crave deep intimacy and connection with our friends, mate, dates, and/or family. Unfortunately, we never learn how to connect deeply in a short period of time. Fortunately, there is a solution. Below you will find a description of an exercise you can do with virtually anyone you know that will quickly lead to deep feelings of connection.
The method for creating a quick connection consists of 12 powerful questions. In essence, you and a partner, friend, date, or even co-worker can take turns answering these questions. If you’re short on time, you may choose to only answer a couple of the questions with a partner. With each question you take turns answering, you’ll find an almost magical feeling of intimacy rapidly develops between the two of you. Give it a try and you’ll see what I mean. Just follow the directions below:
Directions:
This is a powerful exercise that can evoke a strong response, so be sure to create an emotionally safe space for your exploration. These questions deserve plenty of time and your full focus. Find a quiet place, turn off your phone, and let go of your concerns as best you can. Set aside up to 40 minutes to answer all the questions with a partner, although if you are short on time, it’s fine to simply answer a couple of the questions together.